... stands for Mind Your Own Business.
Nope, i am not referring to the company which provides you a software that enables you to mind your own accounts for your business.
Why do some people have to be such a busy body ??? Why can't they just let me live my own life? Why do they want to disturb us? (I am definitely not referring to our parents !). YES !! I am actually referring to some people whom i used to call them "friends" just 1 month ago. The previous month was like a World War 3 to both of us... Challenges everywhere, people simply adding oil into the fire. It was a great test of the faith between us....
But yesterday ....
I had enough!
How could i be so stupid to have even treated you all as my friends last time???
Why can't you all just mind your own business???
Why must you all interfere into people's love life??? Talking bad about our partner behind their backs are not a very nice thing to do...
We did not even asked you all about your girlfriend/boyfriend. So why in the world must you all stick you fingers into ours???
Come on la people... grow up !!!
Friendships... are not supposed to be exploited and abused in this manner. I respected you all, i hope you all will do the same to me.... but NO. You all did not even care about the resulting outcome of it. All that you all care is your ego and to fulfill your own curiosity... You want questions answered, questions about me and my girlfriend, our privacy. And when i refused to tell, this is how you all respond to me??
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Let be gone, be gone...
I prayed...
and prayed...
and prayed...
"Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." (Ephesians 4:32)
Fellowship without forgiveness is impossible.
As believers, we're called "to settle our relationships with each other." (2 Corinthians 5:18). We need to consistently forgive others and receive forgiveness from others, or we'll "give up in despair." (2 Corinthians 2:7).
Whenever we're hurt by someone, we have a choice to make: Will we focus on retaliation or resolution ?
The Bible speaks candidly about settling the score: "Make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always try to be kind to each other and to everyone else." (1 Thessalonians 5:15)
In God's economy, it's not enough to say we won't seek revenge; we're to press into the very heart of forgiveness , forgiving each other, just as Christ forgave us. (Ephesians 4:32)
The Bible is very clear that forgiveness is not optional for the Christ-follower. God sets this high standard because he knows how much is at stake in your life: Bitterness and unforgiveness are a cancer that eventually will destroy you from the inside out. Forgiveness is the scalpel that removes the tumor.
This doesn't mean you'll always be able to immediately forgive and be done with it. As you become more and more Christ-like, that will become possible, but for now you may have to work at forgiving someone who has hurt you in a particularly painful way. In other words, you may forgive this person but soon begin to feel a root of unforgiveness growing in your heart.
When this occurs, you can go to Christ Jesus and ask him to help you with this cycle. He will help you release the offender, and the Holy Spirit will guide you in your effort.
A major point here is that forgiveness is a choice you can make. The power of God, working within you, means you no longer have to remain a slave to unforgiveness or bitterness.
In Colossians, the Apostle Paul provides the basis and motivation for forgiveness: "You must make allowance for each other's faults and forgive the person who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others ." (Colossians 3:13). When we remember the price Jesus paid to forgive us, how can we not forgive? (Romans 5:8)
I will forgive you my friend...
Till then...
1 Thoughts:
dear,
i will support you....i will also forgive those who have tried to harm us....i know it's not their fault to do such things...it might have been someone who are behind all these scenes...but no matter who that person is...please please...leave us alone...we have learned to be tougher each time you place challenges on us...you might not know..but thanks...as you make us realize and understand how much we meant to each other...so..don't keep it in heart.....everything will resolve soon....
jyjy.... ^^
~LoVeY~
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